Geisha’s Secret life (By “Lady X”)
For fear of sounding like a wanna be Belle De Jour, it can’t be avoided that most woman who spends any amount of her life as escort will find herself in the position of having a double life to a greater or lesser degree. I played with another escort recently and we both had an amazed conversation, as her family were fully aware of her activities, and she was in shock that no one knew about my secret life…. I am an extreme case, I guess, I am at the thin end of the wedge where only two of my friends know that I am an escort, every other aspect of my life is like anyone else’s: I have a real job, children, parents, friends and siblings…. no one knows about my other life, the life that has enabled me to bring my children up and literally keep a roof over our heads.
I probably enjoy my secret life more now than I ever have as it has enabled me to provide for my beloved children, given me peace of mind each month to at least keep up with financial commitments but what it has given me is a alternative social life and I have
met some really and truly wonderful people from walks of life that I wouldn’t have had the chance to meet if I hadn’t me through my secret life. With all that my secret life has given me it also has not been without difficulties, I guess by definition anything that is a secret will have draw backs.
Drawbacks of my secret life
1. Making up excuses to leave the home to get to a booking
2. Remove all tracks from lap top, phone, GPS, parking tickets, hotel receipts etc
3. Hiding all items such as underwear, toys
4. Changing out of normal clothing into different clothes for booking
5. Not being able to easily plan social time away due to bookings changing
6. Fear of being over heard on the phone talking to clients or hotel bookings
7. Having no one to talk to good/ bad about the life of an escort
8. Being unexplainably tired to family and friends having worked
9. No one to debrief with after a funny or not so funny situation
10. Personal safety issues
11. Unexplained income
12. Fear of discovery of personal effects if anything ever happened
13. Having friends in circles that others would find unusual
14. Remembering to separate two lives when chatting!
Summary
Despite the difficulties of separating my two lives. I am privileged to have the opportunity to have the clientele that makes my secret life worthwhile and a fulfilled one.
If you are reading this as someone who doesn’t know the life of an escort firsthand then you may have read this and find it hard to believe that the difficulties of a secret life are
worthwhile… all I can say is that to date it is and enhances my life in many ways. Many situations have been a source of amusement and made me smile at what I have had to endure to make it to a booking, so it’s not all bad!
The day that the secret becomes too difficult to keep, I will gracefully retire from the world that has bought me so many benefits and something money can’t buy, genuine friendships.
I wish to convey my sincere thanks to “Lady X” for her time in sharing her thoughts with us, as well as for her amazing friendship. It has been an incredible pleasure to get know her and to share some unforgettable times.
